I'm a role model - i'm happy then i'm sad then happy then sad then happy and so on...?

basically, i'm in love with those who look up to me. I am addicted to being their role model. I don't mean this in a gay way lol i mean this in a brotherly love, i'm 16 and i'm like the older brother to 3-5 kids of a similar age of 11-14. I would die for them, they respect me and i respect them. The annoying thing is that although i enjoy being a role model but i have no control in who looks up to me because they come to me and make me fall in love with them and in the end it leaves me in pain, but i can't stop because they find me and come to me because of my sweet natured personality. Is this normal for a role model? how can i stop it?